Human relations are a very interesting and complex mix. HR has definitely grown to become an independent discipline of its own and is regarded as crucial for any business organisation. Still, it is studied as a part of many other disciplines as well. Sociology, Economics, Psychology etc are not complete without the study of human relations. Even Law as a subject studies and considers HR. For example, Section 15 of the Indian Contract Act, 1872 discusses influence as one of factors that may affect the consent of a party regarding a contractual understanding.
But i want to talk about something which is instrumental in one to one relationship. There are many relations where utmost good faith is required. The relationship between, for example, a doctor and his patient, a lawyer and his client, a teacher and his student or parents and their child falls in the same category.
What is the binding force in such relations. I will call it faith and responsibility balance. Patient has faith and doctor has responsibility. Client has faith and lawyer has responsibility.And similarly, student keeps faith and teacher fulfils responsibility.
Now, this balance is very crucial. There can be a financial implication also but that is less important in such relations. It is very easy for a doctor to fulfil his contractual liability by prescribing medication and treatment but responsibility has a bigger spectrum. And the same is true for the other mentioned relationships too.
Now what binds a doctor, a lawyer or a teacher is not merely contract but faith. Money can buy services but not responsibility. It arises out of faith only. And the moment one party loses the faith, the other party is relieved of the responsibility.
Yes! This point is very important in human relations. Have faith! For God's sake, never lose it. The moment we lose faith, we relieve the service provider professional from his responsibility!
6 comments:
Respected Sir,
It is very true that “Faith” is driving function of any relation and working as a bond. Trust comes from the faith. You are very true, if faith is absence then how could you get the results. Why someone put his efforts to make relationship robust.
Your examples are absolutely perfect and fulfilling the required aspects of any relationship. Responsibility is a resultant of trust and faith. It is kind of recipe, which never give the right result unless required function is missing.
Regards
Shailendra
Spring 09
respected sir,
rightly said by you.Before expecting anything from anyone, we must have full faith on them. we will show this faith, by our action,determination. It ultimately urge responsibility from other side. He feels a responsibility to maintain that faith and tries to deliver good results. In this way, we achieved our desired result and maintain relationship.
with regards
shravan gupta
Respected sir,
rightly said by you.Before expecting anything from anyone, we must have full faith on them. We will show this faith, by our action,determination. It ultimately urge responsibility from other side. He feels a responsibility to maintain that faith and tries to deliver good results. In this way, we achieved our desired result and maintain relationship.
with regards
shravan gupta
Respected sir,
rightly said by you. Before expecting anything from anyone. we must have full faith on them. we will show this faith through our action, determination.this urges responsibility from other side.He feels responsibility to maintain that faith and try to deliver good results.In this way,we achieved our desired result and maintain good relationship.
your sincerely,
Shravan gupta.
Respected Sir,
You have rightly said about the relation of "Faith" and "Responsibility". I respect your ideas, but I would like to divert. I think that this relations are more or less inclined towards one party, that party in most of the cases is the responsibility executor. A doctor need to convince his patient that he is the right doctor for him. If that doctor is unable to create "Faith" in patient then he is not going to retain back that patient, he have lost him almost. Taking example of government,every citizens have lot of faith that their selected candidate will do wonders but after a period if that candidate fails to fulfill his promise(in this case "responsibilty") then there is no way he will getting "Faith" of those citizens again.
I would like you to provide some insights in this matter.
Regards,
Anjeel Patel
Respected Sir,
Rightly said. We all know what is required to become successful or in more precise words, getting fruits from the efforts which we have put in any task. Then why we all are not successful. I think, one of the reason is faith. Many of us do not have consistent faith in our efforts. By not having faith in our efforts, we relieve outer world from its responsibility to recognize our efforts and help us in getting success.
Regards
Vivek Sharma
IMDR, Pune...
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